Wendy Lynn Johnson

  • Emotional Awareness Is Taught Through Experience, Not Instruction

    Emotional Awareness Is Taught Through Experience, Not Instruction Children do not learn emotional awareness through explanation alone. They learn it through lived experience—through what they feel, observe, and absorb within their environment. Before a child can name an emotion, they sense it. Before they can regulate, they feel regulation modeled around them. This is…

  • You Cannot Model What You Were Never Shown

    You Cannot Model What You Were Never Shown   Many parents are working hard to support their children emotionally while quietly carrying the weight of not knowing how to support themselves. When conversations turn toward emotional regulation, nervous system safety, or presence, something tender can surface beneath the surface. For many adults—especially those raised…

  • Why Calm Can’t Be Forced—and What Actually Helps

      When children are overwhelmed, one of the most common responses they hear is some version of “calm down.” While well-intended, this phrase often has the opposite effect. Calm cannot be commanded, reasoned into place, or rushed. For children, calm is not a behavior to perform. It is a state the nervous system must…

  • How Emotional Awareness Builds Resilience Over Time

    How Emotional Awareness Builds Resilience Over Time Resilience is often described as the ability to “bounce back,” but for children, it is not built through pressure or endurance. It is built through understanding, safety, and the ability to move through emotions rather than suppress them. Children who are allowed to feel their emotions—without being…

  • Why Sensitive Children Need Support, Not Correction

    Why Sensitive Children Need Support, Not Correction Many parents worry that their child is “too sensitive.” They may notice heightened emotional responses, deep empathy, strong reactions to noise or change, or an intense awareness of the people and environments around them. In a world that often values toughness and efficiency, sensitivity can be misunderstood…

  • What Children Are Really Asking for During Emotional Overwhelm

    What Children Are Really Asking for During Emotional Overwhelm When children become overwhelmed, it can look sudden and confusing. A small request turns into tears. A simple transition sparks anger. A quiet child shuts down without warning. Parents are often left wondering what just happened—and how to help. What children are expressing in these…

  • When Parents Regulate First, Children Follow

    When Parents Regulate First, Children Follow   Children do not learn emotional regulation through instruction alone. They learn it through experience. Long before a child can explain what they are feeling, they are sensing the emotional and energetic state of the adults around them. Tone of voice, pace, body language, and nervous system activation…

  • How Energy Work and Reiki Help Children Self-Soothe

    How Energy Work and Reiki Help Children Self-Soothe When children feel overwhelmed before they can explain why Many children experience emotional intensity long before they have the language to describe it. Parents often notice the shift first in a child’s body—restlessness, tears, shutdown, or sudden reactivity that doesn’t seem to match the moment. These…

  • Why Consistency Matters in Reiki Especially for Children and Families

    Why Consistency Matters in Reiki Especially for Children and Families One of the most important things to understand about Reiki is that it is not designed to override the body or force change. Reiki works by supporting the body, the nervous system, and the energy field in returning to balance—and balance is something that…

  • Reiki and the Intelligence of Source Energy

    Reiki and the Intelligence of Source Energy Children connect with Source Energy when they learn to trust their inner guidance. When we teach children to trust their inner guidance, we are not teaching them to control their world. We are teaching them to listen—to their bodies, their emotions, and the quiet knowing that already…